Whenever we see anyone first time Our mind and heart make a perception about the person. The perception may be good or bad. And after this our energy goes in the direction of perception. If the perception is good then we pass positive energy It helps both you and the person but if you have a negative perception about someone then you think that whatever s/he is doing or thinking is wrong and you pass negative energy.
So what is good ? - Good/Bad perception
Bad perception is always wrong and Good perception is very risky. Best thing is that never judge any person by just looking him or just listening to other’s words. Because most of the time if we do not have good perception for someone even if the person is not bad. We starts behaving rudely with him and after few time he thinks that you are not behaving properly so he starts avoiding you and after this you think that you were right this guy is like this only. The reality was that you make him like this.
I’ll tell you another story.( Disclaimer:- This story is completely fictitious and is not related to any live or dead person)
There is a guy named Kunal. Kunal works for a company which have more than 1000 employees and have offices across different city of India. One day he got transferred. He has few friends over there. So he starts going new office daily. There is a girl named Kirti. Kunal’s friends told him that don’t talk to her because she is characterless girl. So Kunal makes a PERCEPTION about the girl. Now Whatever she does Kunal thinks about that in negative way. One day Kunal was sitting in office, Kunal was very upset that day and his eyes was full of tears. No one in office even noticed him. Suddenly Kirti pinged him and asked “ Is anything wrong. Let’s have a coffee break, It will be helpful.” Kunal Never expected this kind of response as he was under different perception. Now Kunal is feeling guilty.
Moral of The Story :- Never make perception on basis of others perception.
< --- Manish Jain --- >
I waste my 90% of time in thinking and out of those 90% i am converting few of my useless thoughts to words. So this is what my blog is."My Life, My Thoughts, My Blog in My Words"
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4 comments:
man,..I cannot completely agree wid u...coz watever ur perception is good or bad....u ll have better impression on them....y coz., see here..kunal first misunderstood her n then he regretted...but for that he had built a strong opinion on her....!!
Not every time people get a chance ...Here Kunal and Kirti were lucky ....
Good One yaar..............Your observation of human psychology and its expresson in simple words is really awesome...............Keep Rocking
it is true indeed
but atleast u should try someone who is totally strange for the first time
only then create any perception about him/her or about anything
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